Eye Opener

It seems funny how women can have standards but apparently men can not, and when a guy applies those standards and say no ur not my type or disagrees with a women as if what she is doing is acceptable just b/c the next dude was cool with it is amazing and funny to me.

I had convo with some friends last nite and this older lady didnt want to have a convo with us at first b/c she stated that "we probably arent open minded" about the topic. which was about relationships. when in actuality it was her who didnt have the open mind and listening to her talk she sounded very bitter, i may also add that she in currently single as well. she was going in saying that majority men aint shit and have too many excuses, one being that he has been hurt and that he is getting himself together at the moment and wasnt rushing into anything. as if men trying to get over hurt is some sorta cop out or bullshit excuse. maybe if you tried it ur self...........i mean ACTUALLY tried it.....taking time out from a relationship you may be in a better position.

but i noticed the women that were talking all followed suit with the head bitter chick as if they had no mind of their owns. Ladies i will and must say this only YOU know what makes you happy, another female cant tell you that. what she wont put up with may not even bother you or be a big deal. quit letting these people plant these negative seeds in your head. how can you have a good relationship and then when ur bitter friend tell you about what she wouldnt put up with in YOUR relationship NOW you have an issue. REALLY?!?! what kinda foolery is that ?? apparently you dont have a mind of your own, and your friend validates whats good for you and not so good for you.......... and MANY times...other women secretly hate on a woman when she has a good man...and will craftily try to destroy what you have....

I also have an issue with women saying that men are full of shit or always something negative. For one i would have to say that you havent dated EVERY man, secondly if every dude that you dated aint shit guess what the aint shit common denominator is........thats right. YOU!!!! i refuse to belive that every dude you date aint shit. if you have 50/1 guess what all those dudes have in common??? You. Maybe your the problem, but lord forbid you say that, and point the finger at your self.

the other things i'd like to point out is that alotta women be talking to lames and have a history of talking to lames, yet that one guy that comes along that is real, that doesnt ACT like the lames and doesnt bend like the lames then he also is full of shit, you cant make a real ass man bend to become a lame just b/c that is what you have become accustomed to. how about you open up ur mind and bend a little your self. if the real AND the fake are all still full of shit then lady you have a issue that comes back to yourself that you have yet to figure out and you need to be by yourself.

then she also made a statement that said all this is funny was funny to her, i asked why and she said well look at the "caliber" of men that is discussing this. I will say this maybe the "caliber" of men that you dated didnt think you were of their "caliber" and this applies to all, just b/c you "self-proclaim" yourself as a certain caliber person doesnt mean you actually are. (some of you think VERY highly of yourselves and its undeserving) cause those "caliber" people will let you know or not, and pretty much if your still by yourself proves my point. some of you need to become a little more humble and be accepting of people flaws, instead of coming with a list of things that a man needs to be. if you do that then ur expecting a man to be perfect, yet your IMPERFECT, how can you ask for something that you cant even bring to the table yourself............makes alotta sense huh??? Yuuuuppppp (sarcastic)!!!!

Last but not least quit asking other women about men. can you ask Cadillac about Chevy?? so how can you ask a woman about how men operate, this makes sense also doesnt it............if you say yes.... kill yo self. if a woman is always in a unsuccessful relationship, your coming to ask her for what exactly? she has dated like 8 dudes in 8 weeks and say she loved all of them, does this sound like a person with smarts and if you listen to her your are JUST as smart as she is.............not so!! i understand ur looking for someone to FEEL sympathy for you but asking the bitter chick is a very bad idea.


If your talking to a guy and he tells you "lets just go with the flow and see where things go from there"(this guy is reluctant BUT he is willing to give YOU a shot, per the reason taking it slow) if your interested follow suit, do exactly that, nothing more. cause as soon as you try to rush things and apply pressure...especially if its early!! ur gonna watch dude flow into the opposite direction. I mean a guy has to know if he even LIKES you 1st before he thinks of relationship with you, right?? AND just b/c he wants to have sex with you doesnt mean he likes you enough to be in a relationship, he just wants to have sex with you.

Every mans goal is to have sex with you that is what physically attracts us to you. sex doesnt = relationship. sorry to tell you. now what happens during this stage is up to you honestly, cause once you start applying pressure that now you want a relationship since ya'll been having sex is only gonna leave you by yourself. but if you at least let the guy enjoy who you are then ur on the road to success. Just b/c you have some good sex doesnt mean anything what other woman DONT have good sex. what are you bring to the table cause if all your bringing is a sex AND headache, then guess what. you've guessed it............you'll be wondering what went wrong.

If you have guys that are willing to tell you trade secrets in a group setting on how men think and they aint trying to fuck you, they you need to listen. just sit an listen.

WAKE UP CALL!!!!: all of you are not relationship material for every man you talk too...........hell some of you are not relationship material period cause ur minds aint together. Just b/c YOU FEEL you could be perfect for him doesnt mean that you really are, quit forcing it and learn everyone is not for you .

Pussy is not a bargaining chip. You have to bargain with a commodity. This the EXCHANGE of goods and services. The stock exchange as reported on the ASSDAQ reports the following goods in the following order of worth: Platinum, Gold, Silver, Copper, Nickel, Pork Bellies, orange juice...THEN pussy. Next time come with a pack of bacon and some tropicana you may just get somewhere. U stay up... Lmao..



If you become angry reading this then it may apply to you and your not intune to reality, this is real shit and real talk...............you dont have to read or listen but tell me how what your currently doing is working for you, dont worry i'll wait.