A Time to Heal??

A Time to Heal??? What?? you mean Men get hurt?? AND have to heal from it?? Get Outta here with that madness!!!!! that is how alotta women think as if its unbelievable.

i would like to know why is there such as rush on relationships and since when did there become an age bracket and timeline for such actions. men are scrutinized because he'd like to take time before he "jumps" into a relationship. half of the women that get on guys saying they are not ready for relationships are not ready themselves............but yet you want one because #1)it sounds good to be in one and #2) you can stand to be alone. so you rush a guy to be in one and neither one of you are ready for one and then you not only fuck up the dudes mind by taking him thru sum issues he has nothing to do with that you haven't gotten over but you also now fuck ur self up because you weren't ready to begin with.

Alotta women should be even happy that a guy is telling you that he is not ready for a relationship and not playing you. at least he does KNOW what he wants at the moment, but don't get mad at the guy because he is not willing to succumb into a relationship due to ur seduction.
a guy may not be ready to be BACK in a relationship cause it messed him up in the head and he needs to get over it, yet you get mad b/c he wants to get over some past issues and he doesn't want to dump those issues unto you!!!

I don't believe alotta women think men hurt, we may not display it and say it as you all but we do hurt, we understand you may want to be the one to help mend and fix our hurt but what you don't understand, we want to mend it ourselves, unlike some of you. which leads me into this alotta you want a dude to mend the previous guys mistakes and hurt he has caused you. you you really need to heal on ur own. Its like playing football for guys if i break my leg, i 1st have to wait til my leg heals then when it does im still reluctant to go back out to play for fear i may break it again, so you may play but its very gingerly and cautious, until WE feel comfortable not when YOU think we should be ready.

What happened to wanting to get to know each other, are you afraid that we(guys) aren't gonna like what we see in you??

You cant make a guy ready just because ur ready, let that man come around, quit talking about it all the time, making him feel guilty cause he associates with other women that are JUST that associates!!! when you display this action it lets us know and feel that we're not sure if ur ready ur self b/c of the insecurities that ur showing, and if your doing it NOW we can only imagine it will multiply 3 fold if we're together.

If your a good women trust me we see that and know, so you don't have to keep proclaiming from the rafters that you are, cause it wont make us come around any faster
I've noticed also that alot of women don't listen, or try to INTERPRET what he is saying when if you listened what he said is exactly that what he said and means, if a man tells you what he wants and what he is looking for at that time respect that, cause when you try to change what we say we want then it shows you don't respect us or what we want. you want what you want and that is all that matters.............alotta times its not all about you or hell even him, it maybe about how to make life better period.

Quit living in a fantasy and become a realist because everything isnt gonna go how you want it too all stories dont have happy endings but they arent bad/horrible endings either. You have to learn to adjust and if you dont adjust ur GONNA break. point blank period.