I am totally confused as to this sense of entitlement that women have nowadays. i mean alot of women(not all) have this sense that men should be happy to share the air that you breath, and why because you are YOU?? i mean just like men come a dime a dozen so do women. so what makes you so special, whats makes you any different, what do you bring to the table?? i sit back and watch and for the most part all i see is that the worth is put in your box. all that is brought to the table is "the box" and a smile, and the self-proclaimed title that your a good woman. O_0
Ive sat back and noticed that alot of women bring their phD's, Masters, and other degrees to table, as if you want a pat on the back for you accomplishments........... for what? for actually DOING something with your life, oh i thought that is what we are all suppose to do as adults. oh ok. but we get it, we see it, but it doesn't require a constant pat on the back. because after all that is said and done and we look past those accomplishments then what, yes you're accomplished in the working world, but but the world outside of that is what?? being seen on the scene?? yet your real accomplishment that you want is a successful relationship and marriage. and yet you dont offer anything for it. These same "accomplished" women dont have any conversation, dont have a personality, Most dont know how to really cook (unless its a Viola, TGIFriday, frozen dinner meals), dont really wash dishes, clean the home, etc...... whats also crazy is that I KNOW dudes that bring just about everything to the table (btw men dont really look at degrees as an accomplishment for a relationship, like i said its good to have but it doesnt make us wanna jump on board just because) BUT when we have a preference or some sorta expectation of you of what we like and want in a woman then its something wrong with us, because apparently your perfect for any and every dude just the way you are......... yet once again tho you haven't shown anything for us to even see that.
you all want the dude to take you on fancy dinner dates, buying flowers, and etc. but tell me this what exactly does that prove, and better yet if those are things that you really like in a relationship 1) why you not still with that dude and 2) how is that working out for you??
Any man can spend money to impress you but after that then what?? whats crazy is that the man isn't just really impressing you but your friends of whom you go and brag to, because it would seem again that you like the image and making your girlfriends envious.
in the end what exactly do you do for him, do you pay attention to him enough that you can get him something just because or a birthday gift that you KNOW he will like.......... and NO we are not talking about something that YOU would like for him!!!!! women have been and can be so engrossed in themselves that you don't even pay your dude any attention. yet will scream from the rafters that we don't. have you ever given your dude a gift and you never see it anymore, its because he didn't like it, and out of respect didn't say anything negative to hurt your feelings, sorry to say.
Then when you do get a man you down him, belittle him, show no respect because he hasn't accomplished the same as you, whats crazy is that men don't value those same things as accomplishments, they are nice to have, but they shouldn't make you who you are.
As i read somewhere your independence is gone lead you to loneliness.
Women have become sooooo independent that you forgot your role and place in the man woman relationship.
Ask yourself what REAL man is gone stick around with a woman who acts as if she don't need or want him. "i don't need a man for nothing"
Just as a woman likes to feel wanted and needed so do men, just as women need to feel supported so do men. and not that support us in our face and then talk about us behind our backs........ cause trust us it gets back to us.
And if you don't support and respect this man, why are you even with him?? sounds like to me you just like the IMAGE of being in a relationship despite the fact you know your wasting your time, and despise being alone.
women all the time scream they are old fashion, and have old fashion values, yet in that same breath yell they are independent(your version of independence). but you cant have both. old fashion women knew their place and roles, supported their men and took care of home and the new age women does not........... in actuality you want to wear the pants and letting your nuts hang.
there is nothing wrong with being independant, it mainly becomes a problem tho when you have been so involved in your career that you treat your relationships as if its a business or job, becoming disrespectful, and treating your man as less than because he may not be on your financial level. Perfect example I can think of is the role that Sanaa Lathan played in the movie "A Family that Preys". There is nothing better in this world than to have a partner that supports and respects you.
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