As i have gotten older I now understand the reasoning behind the no sex before marriage, because technically if you've never had something in particular before you have nothing to compare it too. Now once you have had sex and especially if it was good and a enjoyable experience, more than likely it will leave a lasting impression on you, so now you have something to compare to and you know what you like out of it.
Now, I do understand that you cant build your life around it, but what i don't get is when people (alot of times women) downplay its importance. Most men at times don't care about all the mental connecting and talking like women do, but we know of its importance to women so we deal with it. Sex is honestly one of the top 5 important things to a man........ not saying it is the ONLY thing but it is ranked in the top 5 and should be recognized by women.
Honestly waiting would be very difficult and more than likely not in a guys plans especially if he's already had it before. I mean don't you have to try before you buy, in most mens eyes why should that be any different?? If I get along with someone and it seems to be going great and yet the sex is unfortunately wack, eventually I am still gonna want somebody else because I am not fulfilled totally, and if that act is ranked in my top 5 of things that somewhat matter to me, then most definitely there will be a problem.
As i said before if your a virgin and never experienced the act before and dont know any better then it wouldnt be a problem, but if the freaks have turned you out and have some experience under your belt then there is where the problem begins to lay. So he/she gotta put it down and unfortunately if they cant/wont/dont, then you will begin your search to find someone that will, cause altho we say it doesnt matter to keep from seeming shallow i guess, cause deep down............... it does, we cant escape the reality of it
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