Hypocrites

Its funny how we judge ppl because they don't react or respond as YOU would have liked that person to, or how you THINK you would have responded/reacted in that situation... AT the end of the day you are not that person, and last i checked still imperfect.

Just tripping on how ppl treating this Cam Newton situation, you'd think this mane kicked a baby in the face or something, this mane embarrassed in how he played and how his teamed played in front of the WORLD!!.......... OAN FYI in 2010 when Peyton Manning lost the Super Bowl he walked off the field without shaking his opposing teams hands, so lets quick acting like this is the 1st person who reacted HUMAN when losing a game ...... ‪#‎Hypocrites‬

Superficial

So I'm trolling today on other posts and you know whats funny, women can speak about dudes not being tall enough to ride their ride, or dark/light enough etc, etc. but the moment a dude say something about a woman wearing too much weave, or wearing waist trainers, or fake eye lashes, spanx, push up bras, etc.... then the dude is superficial! Word?! but without any one of those items you look like a totally different person entirely
Soooo you can speak on your preferences and who you'll ONLY talk to etc, but will attack a guy and call him superficial if he does the same.... i am confused by this because are you not being superficial as well? ‪#‎Interesting‬

Implied Future

Implied Future

women know the game men play and use it to their advantage yet will say they don't play games. they all sell the idea of "implied future cooch"

women can hold a guy emotionally hostage for the idea of "implied future cooch", yes i said it. selling the idea of future cooch. a woman will get a guy to snuggle with her w/o having sex for the implication of having sex in the future, because the idea with guys is, if you have enough patience she will eventually give it to you. but if a guy snuggles a woman against his will

if you are gonna play the game first rule should be whose happiness is more important yours or hers, (because honestly for the most part she is putting her happiness first so why shouldn't you) 2nd rule is the ONLY way to win is not to play, in other words don't play her game

i mean think about it people will not buy or invest in a product if they don't know what its about...... PERIOD!!! You never sold on a implied product.

women you know the game and its been in your favor for awhile now, you know men want an implied product the "cooch" you gonna make us do things solely on the implications of said product

we don't mind NOT fucking, but we don't like CANT be fucking idea

women get to "fuck" a mans conversation, his company, his gas outta his car to come by to be company or to come pick you up to go out and then

so lets reverse it say for instance if a woman is having sex with a man, and a guy says hey we gone have sex tonite, BUT I'm not sure if you gone get some food, or any drinks or some conversation. women gone be like nah, I'm straight on that then, right?? if you KNOW its not gone happen you feel like you are gone be wasting your time.

so fellas just be honest, women already know what the game is..... if she don't wanna play your game JUST DON'T PLAY

women will hold a man hostage to get what she wants out of the whole ordeal, yet will have the audacity to say to a guy that he ain't getting none..... AIN'T!!!! which honestly should be said from the beginning, which would cut down on a lot of foolishness. cause i betcha MOST dudes will not do it. the selling of a implication of getting goods. smdh.

I'm not investing in something that i don't have a clue about

Versus

*Disclaimer this blog is not about hating women or bashing it's to open some insight as to understand how men feel* 

Ok, now the issue and problem in this man woman relationship is this, and this is what i have noticed, seen in movies, and my own experience. men have to be almost everything to a women in hopes of #1 the vagina, and #2 a relationship if he wants that. men have to be a good lover, decent money, drive a nice car, decent clothes, be funny, be everything for you. resentment comes in to play tho is where a guy is suppose to love you like you love him and you've done nothing to lovable for him, and whats crazy alotta women will say "oh yes i do or have" but ask your self according to who?? you or him?? his definition of love is and may be different from yours, so your doing something lovable is according to you not him. Men become to know about women, yet women don't learn anything about men, cause you really feel you don't need too. if you did for one men wouldn't get crappy gifts if you really knew your man. most women get their dudes what they want to see him in, not what he'll really like, its what YOU like, not what he'll appreciate how can he appreciate something that he doesn't like....... see the resentment. yet most men will get exactly what a woman likes and ask for or even heard them talking about. like purses, shoes, etc.

Like a female friend asked me what should she get her dude for his birthday?? this is problem #1, how can you not KNOW what to get your dude for his bday!!!! its your dude apparently you don't pay attention to him if you have to ask that. I asked her does he like video games?? she said yea, well get him the new Madden when it comes out, you know what she said?? "i ain't spending my money on no damn video games!!!" do you think men really wanna spend money on a $200 purse?? Ummmm, NO!!!! yet you'll spend some money on something that YOU like for him only to sit up in the closet.

its like the pretty girl who never really develops a personality cause she's been told she's pretty all her life so she's been able to get away with that

Men resent now the bullshit he has to go thru just to get certain things from you, yet you expect get everything from us 

now this is not being said out of bitterness or anything like that, just saying that women should start bringing more to the table, that men appreciate, not what you think is appreciate-able to you. because in order for the relationship or vibe or connection to work he has to appreciate the things about you also, not just what you think he'll appreciate 

cause as i said when women have been told they are pretty for so long they feel like they don't have to do anything, just sit there and be cute and pretty and dude should be happy that he is able to inhale the same air as you. after awhile there is a arrogance that you begin to have that says he should be happy I'm even with him............ to be loved you have to be lovable to him as well. Think about it.

NOT FOR YOU

It's crazy when you tell someone that you are not the right person for them or what it is she/he is asking you can't give or not willing to give, yet you'll still be asked "well how do you know if you haven't tried yet" . Now the thing with this is that if you know yourself and you have paid attention to the person you already know things are not going to work out not in the capacity that they are wanting because you both probably are on 2 different levels. Also this person cared enough to let you know she/he that they do not wanna hurt your feelings or ruin what you may have already.
People that you meet fall in categories associates, friends, just sex, and relationships (someone you can see yourself with for the rest of your life). Yet we tend to blur the lines as if a person you already KNOW wouldn't be a good fit for you in a relationship. I don't know about you but I'm not willing to just share my heart with just anyone especially that has already shown you signs of disrespect or seems volatile, emotionally unstable.

If someone frustrates you now or you them, where's the logic that it will still work and get better, especially if you are already not in a relationship. At times you just have to chalk things up to be you are what you are. Everyone is not for you how you would like for them to be so just because that person can't be in a relationship capacity does not mean they can't fall into a different one, our hearts selfishness blinds us to the fact or idea that this person may make a better friend to you that helps you see and understand things that you may have never noticed about yourself or others.
Now I will say there are cases where it works but it's far and in between or you just may make it work but deep down you are unhappy,  which at times our unhappiness is a result of being unhappy with ourselves because despite the signs we continued anyways....

Lose Yourself

So people ask me all the time why do you talk about relationships so much? My question is tho why don't you? We always wanna discuss things that we have no control over and get up in arms about it all. I like talking about it cause I find it fascinating, different personalities, struggles, that we all attempt to get over. But the biggest of them all would be that I want someone to love me for me, not for what I can be or the potential that I show but just like a used car on the lot ... As is. Love me for me, enjoy me for me, and it's ok if you don't like or appreciate it, because that is only the indicator that we are not matched for one another, yet we all seem to over look that cause we tend to be trapped or in love with the moment instead of the person themselves. Which in all honesty your doing yourself a disservice by continuing to subject yourself to something that we already know won't last, yet convince ourselves that maybe it will, and be mad at the other person because they didn't change themselves for you yet deep down mad at ourselves because we didn't end it in the first place. ....

Now I'm not sure about other men but I know that when there is a woman that I'm interested in I accept her for who she is, I like her as is, that is what attracted me to her to begin with, why would I want her to change. In order to find your soul mate you must be yourself at all times, and so what if someone doesn't like it, you will eventually find that someone that has those same interests and likes as you.but we all tend to try to become something that we are not, and even lose some of ourselves eventually.

SOULMATE DISSERVICE?

I never understood why people will bring up that they are putting up with your shit like they doing you a favor. ... Ummmm actually your doing your self the disservice.  You are subjecting your self to something that you wouldn't put up with and that you can stop at any time.  So if I say there are things I don't like about you as to why it wouldn't work, telling me that you put up with this and that that you don't like begs for a head scratcher. Cause that is your sign as well that it won't work..... we all eventually change or grow up for the better but if your changing who you are to be with someone 9 times outta 10 they don't like you for you they like what THEY believe you can become, what they want you to be.... be you and you will attract who really loves it! #ThatisAll

The potential to be and what it is IS and will always be 2 different things. If a person is willing to change that means they haven't reached that stage yet. If you are not willing to accept that then it has been revealed to you to move forward to someone who is on that same level as you. It doesn't call for resentment or bashing it's divine intervention showing you that choice isn't right for you but your on the right path.... we tend to stay and be bitter cause we force it to try and work (and anytime you use those words in the  sentence as relationship it's already in the wrong direction) which now you are mad at your self yet project it to the person your with.

Quit making life more difficult than it has to be, we have enough as it is that is doing it for you home(relationships) shouldn't be one