SOULMATE DISSERVICE?

I never understood why people will bring up that they are putting up with your shit like they doing you a favor. ... Ummmm actually your doing your self the disservice.  You are subjecting your self to something that you wouldn't put up with and that you can stop at any time.  So if I say there are things I don't like about you as to why it wouldn't work, telling me that you put up with this and that that you don't like begs for a head scratcher. Cause that is your sign as well that it won't work..... we all eventually change or grow up for the better but if your changing who you are to be with someone 9 times outta 10 they don't like you for you they like what THEY believe you can become, what they want you to be.... be you and you will attract who really loves it! #ThatisAll

The potential to be and what it is IS and will always be 2 different things. If a person is willing to change that means they haven't reached that stage yet. If you are not willing to accept that then it has been revealed to you to move forward to someone who is on that same level as you. It doesn't call for resentment or bashing it's divine intervention showing you that choice isn't right for you but your on the right path.... we tend to stay and be bitter cause we force it to try and work (and anytime you use those words in the  sentence as relationship it's already in the wrong direction) which now you are mad at your self yet project it to the person your with.

Quit making life more difficult than it has to be, we have enough as it is that is doing it for you home(relationships) shouldn't be one