Lose Yourself

So people ask me all the time why do you talk about relationships so much? My question is tho why don't you? We always wanna discuss things that we have no control over and get up in arms about it all. I like talking about it cause I find it fascinating, different personalities, struggles, that we all attempt to get over. But the biggest of them all would be that I want someone to love me for me, not for what I can be or the potential that I show but just like a used car on the lot ... As is. Love me for me, enjoy me for me, and it's ok if you don't like or appreciate it, because that is only the indicator that we are not matched for one another, yet we all seem to over look that cause we tend to be trapped or in love with the moment instead of the person themselves. Which in all honesty your doing yourself a disservice by continuing to subject yourself to something that we already know won't last, yet convince ourselves that maybe it will, and be mad at the other person because they didn't change themselves for you yet deep down mad at ourselves because we didn't end it in the first place. ....

Now I'm not sure about other men but I know that when there is a woman that I'm interested in I accept her for who she is, I like her as is, that is what attracted me to her to begin with, why would I want her to change. In order to find your soul mate you must be yourself at all times, and so what if someone doesn't like it, you will eventually find that someone that has those same interests and likes as you.but we all tend to try to become something that we are not, and even lose some of ourselves eventually.