NOT FOR YOU

It's crazy when you tell someone that you are not the right person for them or what it is she/he is asking you can't give or not willing to give, yet you'll still be asked "well how do you know if you haven't tried yet" . Now the thing with this is that if you know yourself and you have paid attention to the person you already know things are not going to work out not in the capacity that they are wanting because you both probably are on 2 different levels. Also this person cared enough to let you know she/he that they do not wanna hurt your feelings or ruin what you may have already.
People that you meet fall in categories associates, friends, just sex, and relationships (someone you can see yourself with for the rest of your life). Yet we tend to blur the lines as if a person you already KNOW wouldn't be a good fit for you in a relationship. I don't know about you but I'm not willing to just share my heart with just anyone especially that has already shown you signs of disrespect or seems volatile, emotionally unstable.

If someone frustrates you now or you them, where's the logic that it will still work and get better, especially if you are already not in a relationship. At times you just have to chalk things up to be you are what you are. Everyone is not for you how you would like for them to be so just because that person can't be in a relationship capacity does not mean they can't fall into a different one, our hearts selfishness blinds us to the fact or idea that this person may make a better friend to you that helps you see and understand things that you may have never noticed about yourself or others.
Now I will say there are cases where it works but it's far and in between or you just may make it work but deep down you are unhappy,  which at times our unhappiness is a result of being unhappy with ourselves because despite the signs we continued anyways....