I have a couple of things on my mind so I'm going to tie them in both together on this one.
Why is it there are terms for men, like Prince Charming and Knight in Shining Armour for a woman to look forward to and get swept off her feet. But what is there for men to look forward to. Men dont have anything that we can compare women to and see what we may be missing. Women have romance novels, movies.........and lord forbid LIFETIME!!! See those romantic novels and movies and etc leave a misinterpretation at times as to how a MAN should sweep you off your feet and if he doesnt do it like you have seen in the movies or read in a novel then he doesnt care about you or care for you. Just like commercials and holidays tell you that if he dont give you diamonds or some extravgant gift on Valentines Day then it doesnt say I LOVE YOU or he doesnt love like he says he do. As if love has a price, but love doesnt care about those things.
Women now a days, when you hear them talk "i need to find a man with money", nothing about someone that cares for her or respects her or will love her. Women also arent too supportive of there man, they second guess them, they are defiant, lack of respect and very selfish now. And then with the qualities that i just named get mad because she cant find a good man or her Prince charming!!! What happened to the women that catered to their man, supported his decison making with voicing suggestions, and him being the head of the household?? Now its "I wish I would run "that nigga" a bath"(after a long days work), "that nigga need to be running a bath for me", or "i make more money than him he aint the head of shit", and "i wish i would listen to that decision that nigga dumb as hell".
But whats funny to me is you'll do it with a dude that treats you like shit or you run in behind a dude that dont consider you an option, and you almost break your back to hold on to the relationship. But the guy that is there and try to have something with you and is nice to you and is a man for you, you dont want that dude, you still try and run in behind the guy that dont give you the time of day except when he wants some head or ass, and then you give it to him thinking that ya'll getting back together.
I think we all need to men and women, the wrong that has been done to us leave it in the past and move forward, that new person shouldnt have to be responsible for someone elses mistakes before him/her and if you cant leave it be then you shouldnt be trying to get in a relationship with someone new, state what you want in the beginning. If you want just sex, state that, dont have a dude thinking that you want something more and you dont, and vise versa. and women if you meet a guy and he tells you that he is just dating or not looking for a relationship @ the moment dont think that your pussy has some kind of mind altering ability and you can chnage his mind because in the end you gone be left looking stupid and you gone hear these words that I know you have................."I told you I wasnt looking for a relationship @ the moment so why you acting brand new".
Books and movies are fiction just like you tell you kids "its only a movie", this is real life here. Dont have a movie or book tell you what you like or shouldnt like, all men/women arent going to be the same so dont try and make them be like the last good guy that you were with, because in the end it'll be a waste of time.
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