Starting Anew

So many of us struggle with relationships and other events in life because we use so much energy to focus on the past. Women are afraid to love and men are afraid of being in love! Women are so focused on the hurt of their past until they pass the future love of their life. Letting go is a hard process that everyone experiences. We would like to believe that everyone is the same and that everyone is out to hurt us. I truly don’t believe that is the situation but it is still hard to put it to pass. We just have this natural guard up to protect our feelings and emotions at all cost. So when this one good person comes into your life you push and push and you find reasons to distance yourself away from the one that is trying to give you everything you desire. Yeah, we all get burned and some more than twice, sometimes four or five times but everything is for a reason. It is to build you up and make you stronger and the stronger you are the more control you have over your life situations. People come into our lives for seasons. Once they complete their season they have to move on. Keeping them longer than their season causes conflict and heartache. You have to learn the lessons and move on so you can make the next class. If you are late for the next class or don’t show up you cause a ripple effect in life. Now you see yourself trying to catch up with life trying to find out where you belong and who belongs to you. If you don’t see any more growth or happiness stop trying to tape that shit together when it is broken up in hundreds of pieces.

There is a thing called love out here you have to get yours. Accept it! Respect it! Love It! Open up and let the past do just what it does, pass.

Men, we have to make sure we have let the past go and cut all ties and sail off into the sunset with it. We carry some serious bullshit with us: old ass girlfriends still calling playing fucking mental games, old fuck buddies, hanging at the same old places, etc. We have to let that Middle School hurt and pain go, your ass is grown now. All females are not all about money and what they can get(but it sure is alot of them out there). Stop using excuses for not loving the woman in your life. You know like, "I can’t because I have been hurt and protecting my feelings, I’m to afraid to, I am lost". If you are lost, let you woman help guide you to the light. Learn to communicate with your woman, if you don’t know how learn how. If you have children, teach them. We need to stay together and stay strong out here; this is real. The divorce courts and lawyers make a lot of money from us because we don’t know how to communicate or get some counseling. Once you have one bad issue in the relationship, we run and snitch to the lawyers like they give a Fuck about you and your life. THEY WANT MONEY!!

Learn to love and take risks in life. Yeah, love can hurt but it can also be wonderful. Find someone that is for you and not against you; please understand we all make mistakes and shit happens.