I had a convo with a lady a couple days ago about what she wont do with her dude and it was a very long list and some stipulations. SMDH. Ima tell you something and ladies you can either listen or not but its like this, men like whores or a "whore type" (per the reason men cheat with what you say a hoe). you have to be willing to do those kinda things that your guy is wanting to experiece with you. which alotta women view a "whore" as a women that sleeps around with alotta guys, that is not our mentality tho. we want a women that does these things without us having to go outside the home. the only time a man will call a woman a whore is when she has cheated on us. but not if ur being a "whore" for us.
Whats funny is that you can do these SAME freaky things with a random guy. why?? because there's no emotions involved and you dont care what he thinks right?? BINGO!!!! alotta women dont do freaky shit or whore type shit with their men b/c ur afraid of what he might think of you, so you hold back or whatever, at THAT moment of the act we're(guys) not thinking anything, we're enjoying the act as should you. but we are not thinking of you negatively either after the fact either. if the guy is then your messing with a little boy and not a MAN. Quit being over analytical and enjoy ur self, if you enjoy giving head do it, suck it already and quit thinking about it. maybe thas why also you cant have an orgasm cause yo ass thinking to damn much. do you be thinking when ur playing with your self?? im sure you dont, ur enjoying the act. my point exactly. whats also funny is in the middle of the act your judging ur self MEN dont judge so why you putting so much pressure on it. Men like "whores with substance", someone who can blow their mind in the bed and also mentality (i.e. open minded and enlightening conversations, got something going for her self, and SUPPORTIVE) once you learn that your on ur way.
i only stated that b/c these wifey type women out here arent willing to do certain things, better yet i have even heard them suggest and say "i aint finnaa do that, you betta find some other chick that will!!" Really?!?! you shut ur own door on ur relationship that your man is really wanting to experience and share with you. and then you tell him to share "THAT" with someone else. smdh. sometimes its ur your own dismise in what you experience or get in a relationship. you get what you give and some of you dont really give alot. cause you cant just enjoy yourself and whats going on around you. if ur closed then that is what kinda relationship you will have CLOSED!!!!
if you wanna know about a guy listen to one!!!!! quit asking ur g/f"s or you'll stay confused
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If a man was being a man and taking care of home than a woman would have no problems pleasing him. So instead of a man using a woman not pleasing him sexually as an excuse to cheat he should look in the mirror and ask what he is doing wrong. Trust me a woman that has a good man and knows it has no problems giving him what he wants in the bedroom! "J"
ReplyDeletehmmmmmmm, ok, lemme think before i comment............ok. Apparently you didnt READ this whole blog, because if you did you'd notice that this blog has nothing to do with cheating AT all!!!!!! seems to me you read the title and as far as the parenthesis.
ReplyDeleteif you would have read further it elaborates and allows you to open your mind as too what men like. and why women should quit thinking too much or over analyzing THEMSELVES in a act that should be enjoyed by her and the guy she's in a relationship with.
maybe you did read it all, but if all you got out of this blog was an excuse as to why men cheat then you missed the whole point whats so ever and sadly your mistaken, and you may never grasp the point that is made here.